Love Is All You Need - Advice

Anonymous asked: what to do when your crush like someone else? I'm a 2nd year student and i love a girl who is in 1st year. we are really good friends. She knows i love her a lot. But she likes someone else who is in different college in a different city. how to convince her? what should i do?

Well honestly, you can’t force love. I think you should go, tell her your feelings and how you would like a future with her, if she doesn’t agree or doesn’t really seem responsive then you should just move on. If she likes somebody else, you shouldn’t convince, or force her. Of course you should fight for her if you love her, but if she doesn’t appreciate and value you as a person, then there is someone else better for you out there who will. Hope this helped :) let me know if anything else. 

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Anonymous asked: Okay this ins't really love advice. My best friend thinks she is talking to Justin Bieber. I really want to believe it but I'm not sure. Like he has sent her a few pictures, and called her. but all the pictures he sent her don't have his face. some of then seem legit. i'm not sure what to do....

Well if you care that much about it tell her to meet him, or put him on the phone, the probabilities are that it’s not legit, but who knows. It’s not that big if a deal though, maybe she just wants to show off? Find some way to show her its not real. Good luck. 

Anonymous asked: • situation: this guy and i both liked each other a while ago but then he got a girlfriend. he stopped talking me then. they broke up a few months ago and now he's really trying to be friends with me again. he finds any excuse to talk to me, tease me and touch me. when he's with his friends he'll make sure he says something to me. i'm pretty sure im in love with him. and everytime i look at him he's looking at me and then when he sees that im looking at him he looks away shyly. can you please tell me what you think this means and what you think he wants?

Hello! Well what I can honestly tell you is that I am no psychic, everyone is different and I can’t just ‘guess’ what he wants and what he means since I really don’t know him and some gestures wont give me that answer. But it’s obvious that he is trying to get your attention, what his specific intentions are, I can’t guess. Be careful that you aren’t a rebound from his breakup. You can’t be “pretty sure” you’re in love, it’s a yes or no thing, no in betweens, but you can feel a strong attraction. Also be careful that he isn’t playing you for fun, and just talk to him and try to find out what he wants, it sounds like he might like you also, but I can’t be sure. Hope this helped! Good luck. 

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Anonymous asked: ... i need help :( , my new boyfriend is amazing, all my friends even tell me that im lucky to have him and that i shouldn't let him get away. he really is great buut the problem is that : i can't get over my stupid ex. but we havent talked in over 5 months . . . . i know this is bad but how do i stop the way im feeling about all of this, its crazy, i feel so broken all the time. and then i feel horible because i have this great guy who loves me exactly for me, but i still cant help feeling like i miss my old bf . he broke up with me and i thought id never get over him but once i felt like i was this new guy came along right and now we're together but my feelings for my ex are coming back wtf!!!!! i cant handle this , and part of me is just venting so i can understand if you dont have a lot to say to me cuz its not like you can just stop feelings from happening. BUT i mean , i miss my ex, i dont think i could break up with my new bf though, i really do like him! i think i miss my ex cuz he was my first , my first love my first everything, and he'll always be the guy who has my heart first but like .... why ? :(
IM SO SORRY THAT THIS IS SO FREAKING CONFUSING LOL

It’s not confusing, I understand. You probably miss your ex because either you’re insecure, and since it’s your first boyfriend after your first love everything your new boyfriend does will be compared to your old one. I think it’s completely normal that you miss your ex when starting a new relationship, but it shouldn’t be so much that you lose yourself in the progress and it affects your feelings and makes you insecure. Forget about how great and amazing your new boyfriend is, and think about yourself and what you want and what makes you happy. I think you need some space to figure out your feelings, it’s not fair to play your new boyfriend. Time heals all wounds, and usually finding someone new helps people get over the old ones. You have to handle this with maturity, and control yourself. Your ex will always have a special place in your heart but you just have to know how to tell the difference between past loves and not involving them with present ones. Hope this helped, I wish you the best of luck and if you ever need anything else don’t hesitate to ask. 

Anonymous asked: About a week ago, my best friend told me that my boyfriend had been flirting with her and asking her sexual questions over Facebook chat. I confronted him about this and he admitted it, but defended himself saying "it wasn't true flirtation" and "he was trying to get to know me through her." I told him that that sounded like a load of BS to me and that, even though I wasn't willing to break up with him, he was on thin ice. That was about a week ago. I'm on spring break right now and we're planning on going on a trip across the state (it was going to be longer, but because of the incident, I suggested that we shorten it). Despite all this, I'm still feeling uneasy about him and our relationship. The more I think about being with him during this trip, the more I feel unsure about being with him. What should I do?

You should never be afraid to break up with a guy even though it it hard at times. You should ask your best friend specifically what where the questions he asked. You have all the right to be unsure of him, I’d say one more strike and he’s out. But he doesn’t really deserve any sexual things from you on the trip after that incident, at least thats what I think. Carefully observe his attitude, be careful that he’s not using you, and then make a decision out of it. Enjoy your spring break regardless of him, enjoy it for yourself. If you feel unsure take your best friend or someone else instead of him? It’s really up to you. Wish you be best of luck!

Anonymous asked: you take a while to answer these hey =P just saying lol , cuz i always check if youve answered my questions or not and idk it takes like a weeek but its worth the wait since its really good advice .

Hey, I’m sooo sorry! I usually answer in one or two days. But I’m a student and I’ve been soo busy this week. I truly apologize, thing is I like taking my honest time with each and every question and don’t like doing them under pressure. I genuinely appreciate your patience :)

Anonymous asked: Hey :) I need advice... I've never been in a serious relationship before and now there's this guy asking me to be his girlfriend. I like the guy, but I'm scared...what if I like him for the wrong reasons? There's a lot going on with my friends family and school I don't know if he can handle another responsibility as a girlfriend. Seriously, I kinda do like him and enjoy hanging out with him but I don't want to take that to the next level...yet. But he keeps on pressuring me about it and that just makes me more suspicious.. what if he doesn't really like me? he just wants a girlfriend. I don't know what I should do... :(

Honestly, even if this sounds cheesy, follow your heart. If you don’t want anything serious don’t fall under pressure. Sometimes we think we like people because they like us and are always on our backs, so be careful and don’t confuse your feelings. Your heart will tell you if you like him for the right reasons. If you have a busy scheduel, then don’t worry, you’re not loosing anything by rejecting one guy, the time for the right one will come, and do it only when you are ready. Well you’ll never know what he really wants, unless you genuinely see his actions. But if he’s pressuring you it’s weird, if he liked you he’d give you space and maybe try to win you over first. Sorry for the late reply. I wish you the best of luck. 

Anonymous asked: How do you get over a guy you got too attached to but then after all that he just dumps you and says he doesn't want a girlfriend?

Hmm…honestly, time heals all wounds. And surround yourself by friends and loved ones, genuine people who really care about you and make an effort to stay in your life. Sometimes we shouldn’t get too attached to people so quickly, specially guys, their emotions might change. Whats meant to be will come to you. Have pride in yourself, think he wasn’t good enough for you and doesn’t deserve you. I wish you the best of luck and sorry for the late reply. 

Anonymous asked: Recently i'm saving up money to buy a present that cost around $500. That present is for my ex as his birthday is coming up about 1 months time. I've told a few of my friends about it, and they asked me this 'do you think he'll accept that present?'. So now i really don't know if i should buy it, cause i'm afraid he'll reject it, and that'll be a waste of money. But i really want to buy it as he wrote on his twitter saying he wants that, so i thought of buying that for him. I still got feelings for him that's why i don't mind spending that $500 as long as he is happy. But i'm not sure if he'll accept it and so i keep thinking is it worth it. What should i do?

Personally, I wouldn’t waist $500 dollars on my ex boyfriend, no matter what happened. Because if you want him back, then there are better ways to show your love and appreciation that material things, especially such expensive ones. If you’re just buying this for him expecting no relationship or love in return then don’t even think about it. I know it’s a nice thing to do, but honestly, keep that money, and use it for your self because I’m sure you deserve it more than anyone else, especially an ex. Hope this helped, sorry for the late reply & good luck!